








It was January 1st, 2026.
That was the day I decided to bring my 30-year marriage to an end.
A long chapter of my life had quietly closed.
There were years I cannot fully explain—
years of hesitation, of holding on, of not knowing whether to continue or let go.
Moments that could easily be misunderstood from the outside.
And yet, I lived through all of it.
Some of the images I’m sharing now are from Welcome to My Lala Town,
a series I created last year.
The others come from drawings I made years before—
patterns and forms that kept appearing again and again.
I didn’t draw them from reference.
I didn’t know why I kept drawing them.
But I did.
House after house.
Town after town.
Hills after hills.
And in those places,
flowers I couldn’t name were always in bloom,
and there was no sense of danger—only quiet safety.
That was how Lala Town first began.
Last year, it became something more—
a town where kindness is the only currency,
where lemon trees grow just outside the balcony,
where you can pick a lemon and turn it into something sweet,
something simple, something shared.
And somewhere along the way,
I realized I wanted to find that place.
But I wondered—
could something like that really exist?
Ten days ago, I found out that it does.
The moment I realized it,
something in me began to heal.
This new chapter of my life—
it wasn’t a loss.
It was a gift.
When I discovered that a place like my Lala Town might exist in Puerto Rico,
I felt both overwhelming joy and a quiet fear.
What if I go… and it’s not there?
I searched, but nothing felt quite right.
Until one day, I used the right words.
And suddenly, everything appeared.
I cried again—
not out of sadness this time,
but out of relief, disbelief, and something close to wonder.
I don’t need to have it all figured out.
Just knowing that I can go and search for it—
that alone is enough.
Bougainvillea climbing along warm walls,
lemon trees growing in open courtyards,
fuchsia blooming year-round,
and the scent of the ocean in the air.
Puerto Rico.
That is where I will begin.
I will go, not to own a space,
but to find a town.
A place where a cat naps in the afternoon,
where you walk to a café,
buy fruit,
ask about someone’s day,
compliment a haircut,
admire a dress,
and gently begin again.
I still believe that kindness is stronger than betrayal.
That when someone offers kindness,
we should be able to receive it,
and say thank you without hesitation.
I will not let go of that belief.
Because I believe there is a place
where kindness outlives doubt,
outlasts fear,
and becomes the way people live.
That is my Lala Town.
And now I know—
it exists.

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